I tend to agree with something James said earlier, I think.
Adopt a child and do what you want.
Unless these children grow up to be complete assholes (a separate issue), they need to be nothing but eternally grateful.
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"Я это понимаю на рациональном уровне, но не могу принять на эмоциональном" --Бизнесмен Борис Березовский