Bingo, just do it, pursue the dream, everything else secondary.  So let me get it straight - you are already getting an MBA, but not at LSE, but you want to study at LSE next year?  For PhD?  Or some kind of transfer or just a few classes?

Jeez, this guy is seriously dumb - get someone who shares your vision and dream, you'll keep pushing each other toward it.
 

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I can proudly say that I got 2:1 ( Upper second class) diploma in BA already from the UK university. I had to do an MBA degree because LSE asked for gmat exams which I did not have time to take because I was busy with my dissertation. However, I will not give up. I want to do Msc in Finance and Accounting because I find it useful for my future.

The reason why I am talking about my personal problems on the internet to people I do not know is not because i keep it in secret or I am ashamed of something and I prefer to remain anonymous. I have just been on this forum some time ago, and i have experienced pleasent discussions. Also, i dont know whether its bad or good, but i am so open-minded and I do talk a lot about things that trouble me. Also i like hearing other people's experiences and view about things. I find it useful. My biggest advicer, my mother, unfortunately does not know much about my personal life. I am afraid she will not like so many things, and i do not want to give her a heart attack...she will be worrying so much that i will definitely regret that i told her. therefore, i do not want anyone to get wrong impressions of me...

Niks:

i cant forget it unless i teach him at least some lesson.

By doing that you put yourself at the same level with the guy. May be lower. Now why do you think you deserve better one?

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Niks - you wanting him back is like the owner of a pastry shop wanting a thief to come back and steal their most delicious creamy pastries again.  oh la la!  so yummy.

lol

You are obsessing about seeing this guy again, and really this is about you wanting to control the situation.  You could care less about this guy from an emotional standpoint (you want to teach him a lesson; you knew it was wrong from the beginning).  It bugs you that you have no control over him or the situation.  You want him to want you so you can feel more in control.  Not very healthy, because you aren't in control (of your own emotions anyway - and it has nothing to do with who he is as a person I"m guessing).  It's holding you back from moving on and finding somebody more compatible (somebody more local to you!).  Probably you are also having withdrawal from the sex.  There is an easy cure for this:  "the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else".

Trying to give advice to a 19 year old is pretty much pointless cuz you have so little self control or self discipline, but it's fun trying.  Trying to give advice to any woman is pretty much pointless; that's why it would be so dangerous to have a woman President - estrogen can't be trusted.

Niks, there is nothing wrong with experiencing hurt and pain as you go through these relationships.  It's  equivalent to studying real hard.  It hurts, but that's how you learn.

 

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"Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable."

Niks, this guy is clearly a loser.  Why allow him to consume your thoughts?  I know it's much easier for us to speak "rationally" about this - we're not having to deal with the emotional upset he caused you.  However, by contemplating revenge you are giving him power over yourself, and losers like him get off on knowing that they're causing this.  He's not worth it.   Don't you worry, he'll get what he deserves.  What goes around comes around.  Take the advice of everyone on the forum.  Clear your thoughts, focus on yourself, and have fun.  Going on with your life as if nothing happened is the best revenge possible.

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Sweater, n.: garment worn by child when her mother is feeling chilly. ~Ambrose Bierce

James Bond:

Trying to give advice to any woman is pretty much pointless; that's why it would be so dangerous to have a woman President - estrogen can't be trusted.

 

I guess you have given the best advice YOU can.  In your heterosexual misogyny, it figures that you would see sex and control as the only possible issues.

Bagel Roll:

Niks, this guy is clearly a loser.  Why allow him to consume your thoughts?  I know it's much easier for us to speak "rationally" about this - we're not having to deal with the emotional upset he caused you.  However, by contemplating revenge you are giving him power over yourself, and losers like him get off on knowing that they're causing this.  He's not worth it.   Don't you worry, he'll get what he deserves.  What goes around comes around.  Take the advice of everyone on the forum.  Clear your thoughts, focus on yourself, and have fun.  Going on with your life as if nothing happened is the best revenge possible.

 

:-) and what do u do when u understand very clearly and agree, but still dont implement it? ;-)

Nicks, I don't see you are unlucky. The guy did not want to have a serious relationship, and pretty fast said that. That's a _good_ scenario.

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This is like deja vu all over again. Yogi Berra

Niks, forget the revenge part for now.  Who knows, he may come back into the picture later and you can slice and dice him up at your convenience.  Frankly, you just can't control other people.  This is one of the hardest lessons of life.   You can't make someone like or love you.  You can't make someone stay.  You can't make somebody talk or shut up.   You can't make someone come to you unless they want to.  And, you can't control how someone else sees life.   Life isn't fair all the time. 

Honestly, if you put all the wonderful pleasures of life that you will experience into one place in time of your own life, you will see how truly precious the good times are in your life by realizing how truly short they really are.  Say adios to this loser and resume your search for true happiness.  I wish you well in this journey.

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Good point, Mouse! 

Niks, this being a long distance thing, he could have tormented you for a long time by pretending all was well and just not coming to see you...  Gotta give him credit for not beating around the bush like so many others would have.  Nice clean break ... hopefully your feelings aren't strong enough for him after such a short time dating, and you can move on.  I know it was probably a bit of a blow to your ego, but don't fret.  "This too shall pass."   In the meantime, I'm sure that venting will help :)

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Bagel Roll:

Nice clean break ...

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+1

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This is like deja vu all over again. Yogi Berra

huh give him credit?! screw him with his "nice clean break"!!! piece of german ...

now at least i know cold, conservative men are definitely not my type. to be honest, he should be happy he had me as a gf. he is not confident in himself at all, he lacks liveliness, youth, passion and testestorone, i could also say. lol. i am so happy this breakup happened before i actually had real feelings for him.

 i just thought i needed somebody "quiet" next to me after crazy relationships ive had. but definitely not ;-). what happened only increased the passion inside me. i love craziness, i love hot tempered, emotional people.

i know 100% he regrets or will regret about his decision and he will definitely want me back. im telling u, i know this 100%.but who freaking gives a damn? its gonna be too late. its already too late.

Niks:

huh give him credit?! screw him with his "nice clean break"!!! piece of german ...

now at least i know cold, conservative men are definitely not my type. to be honest, he should be happy he had me as a gf. he is not confident in himself at all, he lacks liveliness, youth, passion and testestorone, i could also say. lol. i am so happy this breakup happened before i actually had real feelings for him.

 i just thought i needed somebody "quiet" next to me after crazy relationships ive had. but definitely not ;-). what happened only increased the passion inside me. i love craziness, i love hot tempered, emotional people.

i know 100% he regrets or will regret about his decision and he will definitely want me back. im telling u, i know this 100%.but who freaking gives a damn? its gonna be too late. its already too late.

Hmmm... Well, either this was just all about ego or you have now moved on to the anger stage of grieving.  Hopefully the latter.

I'm guessing you are just hurt and mad.  That's normal.  You really must give up this idea of revenge though (from your earlier posts).  You are the only one that will hurt.  It probably will not bother him, but it will keep you mired in the situation.  We've all (well, most of us anyway) had our hearts handed to us.  It sucks and it hurts horribly, but people we like (or love) are not required to like (or love) us back... and sometimes they just don't.  I promise the hurting time will be much shorter if you forget about the plans for revenge.

he wants to keep in touch with me. and said he still cared much about me and hoped it wont make him lose me as a friend and all bullshit which probably most of guys say when they break-up. what drivs me up the walls is that how on earth can u be friends after such things? why the hell does he think it is possible? and also he thinks he hurt me badly. and well its true...but its not good that he knows it. bcs i even think he might feel proud of it. he disgusts me. thats all i can say. and im not thinking about the revenge any more. he will get what he deserves without my any effort. everyone will get what they deserve in life. i just wont let him defeat my belief in men. i still believe in love much. and if i look back at   my relationships and men i once liked, i can say tht i had never really loved. and the best is awaiting for me in the future. i am happy this break-up happened. honestly...deep down i am happy even though hurt.

i honestly want to feel the strongest love and happiness it can bring, and i will... 

Geez! I am so happy I don't have to date young girls anymore! LOL

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