SweetPea, you are so passionate.  You sound just delicious.  Yes, "lets' be friends" is codeword for "we can keep being friends if you don't mind me sleeping around with other women, cuz I already have my eye on a new one".  The good news is that with all that passion, you get to enjoy the High High's that come with emotionally-charged relationships.  The bad news is that you will also experience the Low Low's, like you doing now.  These emotional High/Low's do not come and go quickly.  In fact, it usually take 2 to 3 times as long to get over somebody as the amount of time you enjoyed with them.  For example, if you were with him for 6 months it will take you about a year and a half to get over him.  Lucky you, though, is he wasn't your Twin Flame that wasn't smart enough to stay with his one true love.  Sadly, that takes your entire life to get over, and your best bet is to try and find him again in the Next Life (however you define that).

So, chin up.  THe first step is realizing that you will be miserable and lonely for many months to come.  And then eventually you will find you next new ex-boyfriend ans start all over again!

 

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"Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable."

why the hell should i be miserable? i actually already got 2 guys who fancy me. im meeting one of them tomorrow and another one on saturday. i am flying to geneva at the end of month for just chilling out with a friend. i dont feel miserable at all.

Sergey..... LOL

Your absolutely right..    proof is right in front of us.

In , what, 10 days of the life of this thread, look at the range of emotions this young lady has exhibited. No offense intended, Niks.

I'm sorta glad I don't have to date young women any more too......Who the hell could keep up and figure all that out?  How would you EVER know what she was really feeling???/  It's like it would change, what.... hourly?

 

Niks,  wish you well on your future.  forget this guys and live your life, it seems your on the right path.

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Make each day count to improve yourself and those around you

Am I the only one who thinks Niks and painter's cleaning lady is the same guy?

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No, there is one more...  James Bond.. the master of puppets..

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Sergey..... LOL

Your absolutely right..    proof is right in front of us.

In , what, 10 days of the life of this thread, look at the range of emotions this young lady has exhibited. No offense intended, Niks.

I'm sorta glad I don't have to date young women any more too......Who the hell could keep up and figure all that out?  How would you EVER know what she was really feeling???/  It's like it would change, what.... hourly?

 

Niks,  wish you well on your future.  forget this guys and live your life, it seems your on the right path.

 

Lol indeed its funny when i look at it as a third person, but i guess its pretty natural. moreover, i just dont go too much into details, u dont know much about things. therefore, i think it would be difficult for u to make judgements about the whole situation and especially my personality. However, i find it beautiful to be young. and i am sure many men would disagree with ur statement of "dating young women". there is the certain time for things in life and every age has its own characteristics.  I think many modern women are kind of "lost" at the ages 18-25. and normally those who havent really loved yet, just experience physical pleasures. well just like men. the difference is that their age gap can be longer.

i find it good to think positive. thats all

_Sergey_:

Am I the only one who thinks Niks and painter's cleaning lady is the same person?

 

what ?

Misery:  Those 2 guys you are going to date are wanting you, but you are still wanting your ex (on some wierd level).  So while you are having fun with them, your ex will be having fun with your replacement.  Of all the people having fun (potentially 5 or 6 of you if we throw in the 'friend'), you are the only one with 'residual feelings for somebody else'.

On a side note regarding the US economy.  Welcome to the Divided States of America.  I predicted 6 months ago that the sky was falling. Now we are headed for an emergency landing so please put your head between your knees and kiss your ass goodbye.  Nobody can help you now.

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"Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable."

No wonder Jerry Springer's show is so popular!

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"Some say the Muses are nine: how careless! Look, there's Sappho too, from Lesbos, the tenth." Plato