I want to dive deeper into Sapho's comments (since I can't dive deeper into Sappho):
As long as you don't break your head diving 
WHY? BECAUSE SOCIETY TELLS US WE ARE SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED. BECAUSE WOMEN HAVE TICKING BABY CLOCKS THAT MAKE THEM WANT TO HAVE BABIES. BECAUSE MEN DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER. LOL
I tend to see a rather mystical experience in making a baby, a being that contains bits of yourself and the one you love. However, I don't view procreation as my personal purpose on this planet.
I THINK IT'S GREAT THAT PEOPLE GET MARRIED, BUT PEOPLE NEED TO GO IN WITH THEIR EYES WIDE OPEN. INSTEAD THEY GO INTO MARRIAGE WITHOUT A CLUE WHAT 'FOREVER' MEANS. WHY RUSH TO GET MARRIED IF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT FOREVER.
As one of my friends used to say, people should be given long tests before getting married and having babies!
And I tend to agree with those who think that in the future, people will simply live together, if they choose so, without any contracts. WHEN CAN YOU AND I START ON THIS?
In Russian, we have a saying - "after the rain on Thursday!"
RESULT? WOMEN ON PROZAC AND MEN THAT DRINK TOO MUCH (EQUIVALENT OF PROZAC FOR MEN). YOU HAVE TO PUT YOUR OWN HAPPINESS FIRST TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY. NOT, BE MISERABLE, AND MAKE OTHERS MISERABLE TOO.
Right, however, people tend to look for happiness in others, rather than within themselves. Why, I wonder?
Not that there is anything wrong with it, but what's wrong with wanting to lead your own life differently from others? OOOOHHHHH BABY........
I hope that you did not hurt your head in the end!
"Some say the Muses are nine: how careless! Look, there's Sappho too, from Lesbos, the tenth." Plato